Ask Allison: My husband leaves all the housework and care for our two infants to me. I'm at my wits’ end – is there any way out of this?

Psychologist Allison Keating answers your queries about life and relationships

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Allison Keating

Question: I can’t get over how absolutely selfish my husband is. It is actually breathtaking. We have two children now, the second is under six months, and when I say I do everything in the house and for the kids, I mean that literally.

I am on maternity leave now, but it was the same when I was working.